Making sure anal sex is always a fun and pleasurable experience with your man is important if you want to keep your sex life hot. Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs.
Anal Sex Podcast
Flicking through anthropological texts yields a pathetic number of references to heterosexual anal sex. Is this because researchers assume that it's only for homosexual guys? Those researchers are missing a trick. Our resident sex anthropologist Florence Walker investigates. The Ancient Greeks weren't the only peoples to have had a mania for portraying sex acts in clay. Archaeologists have unearthed 10, pots. The vessels baffled scholars who tried to tackle their subject matter. Here's why: there's so much anal sex. Explanations for their mania range from showing a form of birth control to the pots making sense of new political power structures. In this instance, contraception isn't necessarily the driving factor behind entering through the rear.
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg. Have your partner thrust into you while they kneel and grab your hips so your thighs rest on their lap. Meanwhile, you go to town on your clit with your favorite vibe, for a nearly foolproof way to ensure you get yours too or three times or four. Think regs spoon sex but deeper and hotter by moving the party to the couch and hooking your top leg over the top of the cushions.
After researchers surveyed more than 2, men and women about their sexual behaviors, they found that nearly 43 percent of men and 37 percent of women reported having anal sex with the opposite sex in their lifetime. The findings are consistent with a recent report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which found nearly the exact same percentages for both men and women. Once taboo, anal sex has slowly been slipping into the mainstream, largely due to pop culture and porn , explains Kimbery McBride, Ph. But if you have both expressed interest in experimenting with it, there are some things to consider before you do so. In the past , sex researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph. Here, the top tips from both her and McBride on what you can do to make sure anal sex is just as good for her as it is for you. She has to want to try it. So before you go anywhere near her backend, talk to her about it.